Evolved World Blog

Sex Toys My Ex Took in the Breakup

Sex Toys My Ex Took in the Breakup — And the Ones I Wish They Had We divided the kitchen utensils with solemnity. They got the cast iron pan, I got the blender no one cleaned properly since the …

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The Orgasm Gap Year: What I Learned Taking a Break From Trying to Come

They say if you love something, set it free. I wasn’t sure that applied to orgasms, but one night—after a particularly awkward tangle involving three pillows, a silent toy, and someone ear …

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I Faked It… And I Liked It: Why Performance Isn’t Always a Crime

There are two kinds of people in this world: those who admit they’ve faked an orgasm, and those who really need to learn what “performance” means outside of community theater. I used …

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Pride Was a Protest — So Why Are We All Covered in Glitter?

Let’s talk about the sparkly, rainbow-colored elephant in the room: Pride started as a protest. A full-blown, brick-throwing, police-clashing, “we’re-not-going-to-take-this-anymore&r …

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Queer Joy Isn’t a Phase — It’s the Whole Damn Point

Queer Joy Is Forever (Unlike My Angsty Side Bangs) Before we get into it, I’d like to formally apologize to everyone who knew me during the 2007 “bangs and eyeliner” era. I was, in f …

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15 Weird, Wild, and Wonderful Pride Facts You (Probably) Didn't Know

So, you think you know Pride? You’ve marched, you’ve glittered, you’ve maybe even made out with someone in a port-a-potty behind the main stage (no judgment). But Pride’s histo …

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10 Intimacy Myths That Are Secretly Sabotaging Your Sex Life

Let's talk about all the garbage sexual "wisdom" we've collectively absorbed over the years. You know, those relationship myths that sound reasonable until you realize they're about as scientifically …

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The Orgasm Olympics

The Orgasm Olympics: How Competition Is Killing Your Sex Life When did our bedrooms turn into athletic arenas? I recently caught myself mentally choreographing an intimate moment like it was a floor r …

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Vanilla Is Just a Flavor

Vanilla Is Just a Flavor: Why 'Normal' Sex Is the Most Dangerous Myth of All Let's talk about "normal" sex. Actually, scratch that – let's talk about why the entire concept of "normal" sex is co …

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Building Sexual Fulfillment Through Self-Love

How practicing self-love can improve sexual satisfaction and lead to more fulfilling intimate experiences. When people talk about improving their sex lives, they usually jump straight to relationship …

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Running for Better Sexual Health

Running for Better Sexual Health The Unexpected Connection Between Your Running Shoes and Your Bedroom Ever laced up your running shoes and hit the pavement, only to discover that your evening activit …

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Understanding Breathing Techniques for Pleasure

How proper breathing techniques during sexual activity can enhance pleasure, control, and intimacy with your partner. Breathing: we do it without thinking. But when it comes to sex, most of us don&rs …

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Myths About Female Desire

Debunking common misconceptions about female sexual desire and providing accurate insights on libido and arousal. Let’s get one thing straight: female sexual desire is not a mystery. It’s …

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Navigating Family Dynamics: Keeping Your Relationship Strong

The holiday season often brings families together, creating opportunities for joy and connection. However, it can also introduce stress and tension, especially for couples. Navigating family dynamics …

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Creating Intimacy Amid the Holiday Hustle: Tips for Couples

The holiday season, while joyous, can often become a whirlwind of activities that leave little time for intimacy. However, maintaining a strong connection with your partner during this busy period is …

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Navigating Sexuality After Divorce

Understanding the Impact of Divorce on SexualityDivorce can be a life-altering event that significantly impacts every aspect of an individual's life, including their sexuality. As people transition fr …

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Understanding the Connection Between Libido and Mental Health

The Importance of Libido in Sexual HealthLibido, or sexual desire, plays a crucial role in sexual health and overall well-being. However, many factors can influence libido, particularly mental health. …

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The Truth Uncovered: 10 Myths About Orgasms You Need to Know

Understanding the Myths Surrounding OrgasmsWhen it comes to sex, knowledge is power. Yet, despite living in an age of information, many people still cling to persistent myths about orgasms that can cl …

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Addressing Unwanted Sexual Desires

The Complex Terrain of Intrusive ThoughtsWhat Are Unwanted Sexual Desires?Sexual desire is a natural and healthy part of human experience, but what happens when those desires feel intrusive, unwanted, …

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The Influence of Hormones on Sexual Desires

Understanding the Powerful ConnectionHow Hormones Drive Sexual DesireSexual desire is a complex and multifaceted aspect of human sexuality, influenced by a variety of factors including emotions, relat …

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The Role of Fantasies in Sustaining Desire

Why Fantasies Matter in Long-Term RelationshipsIn the early stages of a relationship, desire often feels effortless—every touch, glance, and kiss is electric. But as time goes on, maintaining that lev …

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Sexual Desires During Pregnancy

Understanding the Shifts in Sexual Desires During PregnancyPregnancy is a time of profound change, not just physically but emotionally and sexually as well. As your body transforms to nurture new life …

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Addressing Taboo Desires

Navigating the Complex Terrain of Forbidden FantasiesWhat Are Taboo Desires and Why Do They Matter?We all have fantasies and desires, some of which might feel a bit off the beaten path. These are what …

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The Connection Between Love and Sexual Desire

Unraveling the Ties That BindUnderstanding the Dance Between Love and DesireLove and sexual desire are two of the most powerful forces in human relationships, often intertwined in ways that can be bot …

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