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The recipe for women’s fantasies varies from woman to woman — what would be your fantasy recipe? Take a look at the suggested fantasy ingredients and see how you would customize the recipe for your personal taste. Feel free to share the ingredients for your own fantasy in the comments section.

Do you ever wonder what women fantasize about? It’s often about someone they are or have been involved with sexually, emotionally or romantically. Here are some of the things that I think need to be included to cook up female fantasies…

Recipe for a Female Fantasy

¾ cup details for a romantic and stimulating setting

2 cups someone familiar that turns her on (partner, lover, interest)

2 cups make your desire for her known

1 cup intimate connection with her (more than just sex)

¼ cup commitment (some women want more, other women need less)

1 tbsp. sexual negotiation

1 tbsp. loss of control (make her feel it is safe to lose control)

½ tsp. passion blended with initiative and creativity

Combine setting, familiarity and desire until it is well blended.

Once she begins to feel comfortable, add connection, commitment and a dash of negotiation. Subtly blend loss of control, passion, initiative and creativity.

Cook at 450ºF in her mind and let sit for at least five minutes after the fantasy reaches emotional arousal. Using your hands and mouth, bring her body and mind to a complete surrender….

I initially saw this posted on Dr Ava’s blog and added some subtle tweaks of my own. How would you change this recipe to make it more stimulating for you?

Posted by Nikki Leigh on June 11, 2011 12:39 pm