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We all have them; our “deep secrets” or even “dark fantasies.” Within the average lifetime of a human being we have to consider that some of the dirty deeds in our sexual appetite may never be fulfilled. Whether they are inhumane, unpractical or borderline illegal, we all have a secret list of things we would love to experience with another individual before our time is up. So I put together a list of some of my guilty pleasures and things I would want to experience. I call this the “Sexy Bucket List.”

Having a list or at least a mental note of what would truly please you in bed is a great way to ensure satisfactory relations with your significant other or friend with benefits. It’s a great idea to share your ideas with your partner so you both are aware of what turns each other on. And if you aren’t in a relationship and are just having a little bit of fun with a friend, there usually is no limit as to what you can do in bed. So if you want to try a new way of being naughty then just speak up!

1. One Night Stand

Sure a lot may view this to be trashy, but I say ‘why not?’ It never hurts to experience all of someone with no strings attached and not feel the pressure to try to make things work. If you’re having fun and you know that this is nothing more than a simple fling go for it! But remember to always practice safe sex especially in a situation where you have no clue as to your partners history.

2. Double Penetration

Now I have experienced it on some levels but I feel my Sexy Bucket List wouldn’t be complete without the real deal. Experimenting with ghetto pops or using sex toys during intercourse just doesn’t have the same feel as skin-on-skin lovin’.

3. The Mile High Club

While this might be a bit tricky due to the tight TSA regulations, small corridors as well as the awful stench of the lavatory, there are still plenty of fun ways to get some mid flight. Finding a way to make use of those courtesy blankets and neck pillows has always crossed my mind more than once between take off and my safe landing.

4. Roleplaying

While I have dibbled and dabbled a bit with different scenarios in the bedroom sometimes it’s just fun to try out new ideas. While I was a bit of a technical theater nerd I still enjoy playing a good role every now and then. And that’s why I added the Roleplay aspect to this list because every time you try it out becomes like the first time doing it.

5. The Violent One

In bed I thoroughly enjoy being 100% submissive. Feeling out of control and helpless is one of the biggest turn ons to me. That’s why it should come as no surprise that I love it to get a little beyond rough. But for me, there hasn’t been a level of comfortableness in a relationship yet to take it beyond slapping and choking and onto the next level. Fantasies of using knives and scissors during sex to cut off my clothes has always been one of my darkest fantasies. Maybe its a bit of repressed memories from my youth, but I feel the violence fuels me to finally feel free.

While there are plenty of other sexual encounters I would love to experience, these are just a few of them that I feel comfortable sharing. Maybe in a year or so, I can come back with an updated version of the stuff I’ve done and new ideas when it comes to getting in the sack with my partner.

Posted by Sexandria on June 01, 2011 05:54 pm