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Morning Sex

The sun rises, and peeks its nosy head through the window panes nagging you to get up for another day at the office. It’s still just a tad too cold in your room to get up, so you snuggle next to your partner to keep warm. And as the alarm echos like a police siren against your reflective walls, it hits you.. There’s no need to get up right away, because you both have each other.

I find morning sex to be one of the most intimate and rewarding things (sex wise) in a relationship. I am overly sensitive in the mornings, so the heightened senses create a whole new level of pleasure and passion. Turning off the alarm, and rolling over for a quickie before work also helps alleviate the stress of going in to a busy day.

But from a guy's side, having the good ol’ morning wood is just a natural process, which develops usually within REM sleep. This erection usually occurs anywhere from 2-4 times a night, and lasts several hours at a time. This completely rules out the myth that your partner is rock hard because of ‘sexual dreams’, but that doesn’t mean they can’t have a little fun in the morning with what the night has blessed them.

What about the girl's side? Biologically, girl’s tend to have more testosterone in the mornings, then any other time of the day. With such high levels of it coursing through your body, it tends to heighten your sexual arousal in the wee hours of the day. Over the lifespan of a woman, these insane levels of testosterone will decrease by almost 50% of what it is in her early teens to late forties.

A few steps to take to make sure you can get in your A.M. fix are as followed:

* Always try and relieve yourself of bodily fluids before you head to bed. Nothing kills the mood more than trying to hold back the urge to pee during sexy time.
* Brush your teeth the night before, and keep some mints along the bed. There is nothing, and I repeat NOTHING! sexy about some killer breath during your snuggle time.
* And always keep condoms within arms length of the bed for that early morning quickie. The fastest way to kill a man’s mood, is for him having to scavenge the room looking for them.

For me, I would love nothing more than to have morning sex everyday. But in reality, I view morning sex as a privilege, almost like bringing home the straight A’s on my report card and getting treated to dinner somewhere extravagant as a kid. It’s one of those things to be cherished with your partner, otherwise it becomes more of a chore than getting up for work was in the first place. For me, I know if I’m feeling a tad bit extra naughty that morning, I might just decide to call and tell my boss I’m running somewhat late to spice up the thrill level of it all.

Posted by Sexandria on March 30, 2011 05:19 pm