Are you in a committed relationship? If so, you likely love your woman, right? Despite a deep and intense love for her, you may want to see an improvement in your intimacy. After all, what man doesn’t want good sex?
If you want to improve your intimacy with your woman, it is important to know that you have a number of different options. Unfortunately, when many men think of intimacy, they automatically start thinking of the bedroom. Sure you want to “wow,” her in the bedroom, but that is not all there is to sex and intimacy. In fact, that is where many relationships go wrong. Too much focus is placed on the sex or the lack of it.
To help you properly improve your intimacy with your woman, I’ll share some tips to improve the intimacy in your relationship. These are easy tips to implement and they have been successful for other couple.
1 – Take Her on a Date
How long have you been together? If you have been together for a number of years, do you honestly remember when you had your last “real” date. Unfortunately, many men underestimate the power of a date. You do not want to make this mistake. If you opt just for the sex, your wife/girlfriend may start to feel like it is her responsibility to please you and this is not how a relationship should work.
To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve her satisfaction, take her out on a date. Many times, getting out of the house is enough to bring new excitement into a relationship. For the best level of success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a fancy dinner, a romantic movie, or a night at a nice hotel.
2 – Compliment Her
When is the last time that you have paid your woman a truly nice, sincere and unique compliment? If it has been a while, it is time for you to start again. Is she wearing a new outfit? Has she recently started a weight loss plan? Did she get her hair cut? If so, be sure to compliment her. Complimenting her appearance will increase her self-confidence. This, in turn, can improve your experiences in the bedroom. Never underestimate the passionate power of a self confidence woman who loves you.
As important as it is to compliment her appearance, it is also important to remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship. Do you notice that the house is clean? Has she prepared a nice dinner? If so, thank her for the job well done. This will not only help to improve your relationship in general, but it can have an impact on your experiences in the bedroom.
3 – Seduce Her
What is sex like in your home? Does it occur like clockwork? Do you actually take the time to ask if she wants to have sex? Definitely ask her, but make it a seduction, don’t make it seem like you just expect her to want to have sex. Make it appealing and arousing for her – seduce her like you did when you started dating. You may be rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but why not take the chance? Be spontaneous. Seduce her and make her want to have sex with you.
4 – Fulfill Her Fantasies
In keeping with seducing your woman, let her know that you want to fulfill her fantasies. It may take a few times before she opens up about what she likes or fantasizes about sexually, but the information will likely come out soon. Give it your all to fulfill her fantasies and it is crucial that you never laugh at her fantasies. It is also important to note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and sexual desires with your partner. In end, you may all end up being pleased much more.
As you can see, there are a number of different ways you can improve the intimacy in your relationship. Please remember, however, that you want to get started in someplace other than the bedroom. Sex in a long term relationship is about more and should be more than just the act itself. Taking the time to date and compliment your partner will more than pay off in the end.
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