I love to give blowjobs, and I am not just saying that. There is something so great about being able to get a guy off but being in control of it. You know how people get cravings for things, well sometimes I get a craving to have a penis in my mouth and give a blowjob. Thankfully I have a live in boyfriend so I am always able to indulge in my craving; he doesn’t mind helping out at all.
I have such an enthusiasm for blowjobs that I often teach a class on how to give them. Pretty much a blowjob 101 that goes over all basics, techniques and tricks one can do. A lot of the time when women come to the class they are looking for the one way to do it and it will be awesome every time. They think there is only one way to give a blowjob; one way to lick or suck or spit etc. They want to know the exact amount of pressure to put on there. Now I can definitely lead them in the right direction and give them all the tricks and tips that I know. But one thing you always must remember ladies, there is no one perfect way to give a blowjob.
Does every man like his steak rare? No, some want medium or well done and some don’t even like steak. (Shouldn’t have used that comparison because now I’m in the mood for steak) The same can be said for men and blowjobs, not all men want and like the same thing. Sure there are some common ground rules that you will find that work with most men. But you have to tailor your plan of attack for each man you devour.
I dated one guy once who did not want a messy blowjob. So I didn’t use a lot of spit and was careful not to gag, it was a very polite blowjob. Honestly not one of my favorites. Switch to the next guy that I dated and he got off on me gagging, go figure. He liked the spitting and drool that comes with a “messy” blowjob. You are probably thinking “How will I know what he wants?” Ask him, always ask him. Don’t be afraid to put it out there. Even while you are doing it be all sexy like and say, “Do you like this?” or “What will make you cum hard?”
You have to learn all the things that get each guy off. Some guys might want you to squeeze their penis super hard while stroking it and sometimes it hurts other guys. Occasionally you will find that rare guy who wants you to bite it. I have yet to ever encounter a man who enjoys the gnawing of the penis but I do know they are out there. I have heard stories.
One thing you must remember that is always going to be different for guys is how you play with the extras. I am talking testicles, perineum and butt. It still freaks some guys out when you venture to his back side. They won’t even let you near it. I personally enjoy giving a good rim job and get excited when a guy likes his area down there licked and kissed. It just gives you so many more options to play with, and I love to play with the penis and his friends.
So just remember ladies that no man and his penis are the same as the last one you played with. Find out what your guy likes and go with that. And always have fun with the penis, I know I do.