If you’re looking for a way to spice up your spring fling, bringing a toy into the bedroom is a simple way to take your love life from hot to sizzling! However, with so many options out there, choosing the right toy to help you turn up the heat can sometimes be a daunting task. My best piece of advice for couples who are looking for that “special something” is simple: find a toy that you can both enjoy together. With that advice in mind, I’ve compiled a list of my top three favorite couples’ toys this summer.
#2 Zero Tolerance’s ‘Crossbones’ cock rings
A vibrating cock ring is marketed as a couple-oriented toy. It slides down to the base of the penis, holding the blood in the shaft, keeping the erection harder, firmer and even helping him to last longer! The vibrator sits on the top of the shaft providing hands-free clitoral stimulation during intercourse.
In my personal experience, I’ve noticed that, when it comes to cock rings, each brand and style of ring can give a very different experience from another. If you try one that you don’t like, don’t write off cock rings entirely but try a different one instead. I don’t suggest bothering with “disposable” cock rings as they often have small bullets with very little power, limited battery life and are much thinner – making them easy to break. The Zero Tolerance ‘Crossbones’ collection is my favorite because they are ridiculously powerful, yet quiet and very durable (PS- they’re also waterproof!). They also have a ‘double bullet’ system that allows you to put an extra bullet for ultimate satisfaction!
#3 Evolved Novelties’ Bendable You Too
The Bendable You Too is one of the coolest toys on the market right now. The reason I personally love this toy is that it combines the idea of every toy into one. It gives dual G-spot and clitoral stimulation like a rabbit style vibrator. It can be used solo like a personal massager or with a partner like a cock ring or butterfly.
What makes this product truly unique is its shape and application. It’s curved into a “c” shape and one end is inserted vaginally to provide the G-spot stimulation while the other end sits on the outside of the woman’s pelvis hitting her lips and clitoris. The curves of the toy fit perfectly to the contours of a woman’s body and the ridges on the pads of the toy provide deep stimulation. It’s designed to be skinny enough to be used during intercourse and with multiple functions, this is a toy that you and your partner will not get bored with quickly!
#3 Shots’ Twizzle Trigger
I know what you’re probably thinking, “How is a vibrator supposed to be a couples’ toy?” A small personal massager is a great toy to incorporate into love making because you can use it on your partner without losing physical contact. For example, a guy can easily hold a vibrator against his girl’s clitoris while entering her from behind and watch with joy as she melts in ecstasy (this saves him from a lot of work as it’s not always easy to simultaneously pump and finger from behind). A girl can also excite her guy with a vibrator by using it to stimulate him under the scrotum (the best time to do this is during oral so that you can feel him throb with pleasure)!
The Twizzle Trigger is my favorite of the personal massagers for a number of reasons. Its sleek design is very discreet, its soft, flexible head gives a little more range of movement (eliminating some of the wrist work) and it’s virtually silent. Best of all, the Twizzle Trigger is also waterproof so you can use it while you cool off in the shower, pool or on the beach (just don’t get caught!)