Time for a new year—and the new moves that will put you in Mr. Right’s sights, and in his arms, too. Follow these, and 2014 will be the Year of the Hunk:
Resolution #1: Go Out Of Your Way To Meet Him
The women who have lots of dates—and boyfriends—are those who aren’t afraid to put themselves in the midst of men. Your new mantra: “Be there, and they will swarm.”
Resolution #2: Be Your Best Self
No one wants to know all your fears, anxieties, issues, and hurts—at least, not on the first date. No one is asking you to be his “dream girl.” Be your own dream girl—your best self—and both of you will fall in love…with you.
Resolution #3: Don’t Be Afraid To Get Involved
Most relationships fail because one partner or another backs off. If it’s him, the truth is you may be the right woman for him—but at the wrong time in his life. You’re living your life, so keep looking for the right man at the right time—now—for you.
However, if it’s you who’s not sure where things are going, ask yourself: Are you doing so because you’re afraid he’s the wrong man for you? If so, it’s time to tally what works about the relationship, and what doesn’t. Now, look at the list of things he brings to the table and ask yourself: Have you been happier with anyone else? If the answer is no, you need to give as much as you’re getting from him. He’s a keeper! Don’t let him go.